I want my ex girlfriend back after 2 months break up, What’s the best way to contact my ex girlfriend?
Ok, I want to get back with my ex without coming across to needy… We’ve been broke up for 2 months 2 weeks ago, she’ll called me drunk saying she wanted to get back with me & she loves me etc, but she later said she had a boyfriend, the next day we sent a few dirty messages and after that she didn’t really pursue anything so we have not spoke for 2 weeks & its left me very confused, what would you say is the best way to get in touch…
A) Just call (maybe the weekend when there’s not as much stress)
B) Text (not sure if this should be short or long)
C) Email (again, not sure if this should be a short & fun kinda thing or a long and to the point thing)
I’m asking as my situation is a long distance relationship & quite a lot of my circumstances (which added to why the relationship ended) will be changing which could easily make it work with my ex, but if she never knows them I think she could easily leave the option of a relationship just to protect herself and move on as she won’t know that I there’s a strong possibility of me moving to london…
I feel I am ready for contact her, I just want to know how to initiate contact & I know to act confident & funny etc but I also want a way for me to tell her my change in circumstances without coming across to needy like its the main purpose of the call (although it is), I don’t know whether to be honest about that or to throw in my change of circumstances indirectly without asking if she would reconsider, I just want to be mature about it & say how it is & what’s happened in my life without being pushy… If she doesn’t warm to the idea then I can get over it & fully focus without thinking what if she knew… I kind of feel that there’s no chance between us now as she will begin to think that it never could of worked due to the distance & me not being able to afford a place, this has all changed, this is why I am thinking of initiating contact…
Let me know the best way to contact please…
And also how I should let the conversation go when I do contact her in that way??
please help!!