Is my my relationship with my ex wife affecting my daughter?

because she doesnt Fully understand whats going on between me and her mom?
My ex wife and I are not married and we’re not living together, but Sometimes we have sex and I sleep over and Im there and Its like we;re one big family, but then the next day Im out of there and I don’t see my daughter until the next week. Do you think that Its making her think we have a chance of getting back together, when clearly thats not going to happen. *she’s 9 yrs old

so upset at the way my ex’s,wifes parents are too mine?

i was with my ex for 5yrs and one of the things that made our reltionship hard,and put a strain on us,is my parents i was living with them at home,i was like 20/21 cause of the way my parents are well specifically my dad i never wanted a guy to know them and be included,come round,do all the other stuff,and because they had a problem with where he was from that gave them a good excuse,plus they don’t do the norm that other parents do that i can talk to and tell them about a guy,they take a interest,want to know the guy and include him in the family and stuff,cause they have a problem with doing these things for some reasons,also have a problem with me having a boyfriend full stop and wouldn’t allow me to have him round and didn’t feel free with him cause i was always worrying about my dad.

Anyway we had bad times in our relationship,and at the end when we split,he met women,and met one woman,whom he formed a reltionship with,at the time he was a illegal immigrant,and he got arrested one day,anyway themn being in whatever relationship they had,i mean i don’t know it all,she knew what situation he was in,when he got sent home-to albania,she flew over and stayed out there with him,until she had to come back for work etc,her parents knew about him,they knew his position and she married him whilst out there,he stayed for a few months and then came back,what i’m trying to say is,although her parents and her lived quite far apart,they were out of london,she still was freely able to tell them about him ,they knew him and about him,took a interest and included him in the family,they visited the parents together,etc,now her father who was 80 ish has passed away,of course my ex being her husband went to the funeral,stayed over at the mothers house,now the wife went there for a few days to sort out fathers stuff etc,and has brought her mu up to london fo a week to stay with them,all these things are what i think life should be like when you have a guy husband,and thatsa what upsets me that he has a normal life with her and i could never be like that with him or with a guy. Its the norm that people may have ther differences and opnions,not always get on,but everyone around me who has a guy or husband,has told there parents,the parents want to be involved and include him in the family,he goes everywhere and to everything and its all fine and excepted,they don’t feel they can’t do things cause the parents don’t want to or will have a problem with things,and they don’t feel they can’t do things that include or around the parents cause of how they will be affected by a parent.

I would like to have any advice opinions and stories from other people,don’t get me wrong we’ve both moved on,but i feel sad that i couldn’t be with a guy and don’t have a normal life ,like they do,also don’t tell me its all about moving out of home,cause all those peoples lives have been different before they left,also don’t tell me that the guy won’t mind,its not that,cause day to day life casn go on,but they want to be freely involved and included by a gilrs family.
sory realised my heading was wrong,it was supposed to be so upset at how my ex‘s wifes parents are better than mine,also i do keep finding reasons as to why people act the right way and do the normal family thing,but i know i shouldn’t cause it won’t excuse the way mine are.
But you do find that those other people are completely different people with or without probs and again different to my parents.

Is it usual for a girl/guy to get back with their ex-boyfriend/girlfriend? How often does this really happen?

I have just heard stories from friends of friends that their significant other got back with their ex surprisingly. I just wanted to know how often have you heard this happening and what the reasons for it are. Thanks for your help.

How do I get my ex back after cheating?

So I did the single most stupid thing I could have ever done. 4 months ago, I cheated on my girlfriend…I told her and things have not been the same ever since. After losing her, I realised how much she means to me and how I really have no desire to be with any other woman. I tell her that but she doesn’t trust me at all.

We’ve recently tried to work things out because we both care deeply for one another but she is very hot and cold with me. For the last couple of months it has been an emotional roller coaster for me. One day, she loves me and the next she can‘t stand me and she is full of anger and resentment that I have done nothing to trigger.

She keeps harboring these ill feelings toward me and sometimes even says she has no respect for me anymore. I have tried so hard to make things better. To make up for my actions but I don’t know what to say or do to help her through those feelings.

I don’t need to be told to move on because I tried to do that and it didn’t matter. She’s all I want so I‘m willing to be as patient as I need to be, I just need advice on what she needs from me right now.

I need to know how to file without an injured spouse form to get my money and not my husbands ex..help please?

Ok, so my husband owes money to his ex for backed child support and I’m fine with her getting his portion of our tax return, but not mine! How can I get my money, without filing an injured spouse form? I was told that any money owed would still be held for like 6 months with this form and then I would get my money. I need money back like now. What do I do?

my wife might be getting back with ex after 2 and a half months of seperation?

I found out today that my wife who filed for divorce is getting back with her ex boyfriend. Is this something that she has been planning out for months or years or is this something she planned recently?
I am crushed.

Long distance relationship with ex boyfriend…? Anyone, please help.?

Hi.
My ex Bf and i broke up because i moved very far away,( TO ANOTHER COUNTRY- another CONTINENT) but we got back in touch, he told me he got a new gf and all, it didnt affect me in any way. He calls everyday and texts too. Even when i dont answer. And i NEVER answer when he calls, i cant find anything to tell him, texting is much easier.
But then he called yesterday and i answered, we talked for a few min, he said he’ll call back, but i knew he wasnt going to cuz he made his “umm, got no money left on my phone” voice.
Exactly 24hours later, same time, today i decided to check on my phone and i see a new msg from him.

He asked me to if i wanted to get back together, that he cant stop thinking about me and still loves me.

We’ve been dating for almost 9months but now I cant visit him, its just gonna be really weird if we do decide to get back 2gether.
School gonna start, and i cant see what hes doing, and i cant rlly make such a promise, I love him, i do, hes the only friend who cares, hes the only friend that I have who knows me well.
I know him well…

So do u think its a bad idea, or should i just go for it?
How can i decline nicely…?
Help. please.

should I let him my ex move back in?

Hello we only lived together a short time dated for 4 months well he is demanding he moved back in with his oldest daughter and her son well he calls and last night here she had company they were loud as crap he goes in the bedroom well someone comes in all loud he was like I am on the phone to me them oh well, I know if I do say yes again I got to really think about this before I do.

There is someone that is bothering me his brother him and that girlfriend we all live in the same apartment I live upstairs and Keisha downstairs beside my sister last Sunday he comes up after my ex‘s daughter had picked him up see I was trying to tell you and you’ll meaning my sister and them how he is think said he did not wont to see him around here this weekend he starts things believe me they got mad he would not speak to me goes tells lies on his brother to my sister she calls me.

Then he gets my nieces started they are going to beat his girlfriend up she comes down calls me then they come up talk to my ex well they started back to speaking but my ex went around him very ‘little I told my ex get your own place his credit is not the best get a room now I wont to be sure about this I am single mother of a 18 year old handicapped daughter born with Downe’s Syndrome at birth and recently disagnosed with grandmal seizures.

I wish I could live in another building now away from his brother and girlfriend my ex yes he drinks beer but he goes to sleep when he gets drunk not cuss me out like he soon to do his girlfriend or about other things and loud you can hear if you were coming in the gate maybe my ex said some of his family members think are jealous of each other all I wont to know should I let him back in my ex.

I am going to let him really know how things are going to be we are going to see how for 2 weeks things go he has his issues which can send me crazy sometimes so what do I do

My ex girlfriend needs to think about things before she gets back with me…?

My ex girlfriend and me recently broke up about a week ago. She said she was being overwelmed by being a single mom, going to college, and trying to take on a job on the weekend. She said she has been trying to get on her feet for a few months since she lost her job. We broke up because, well IMO, a mis understanding. She said she needed space, I called her that night and told her I could give her space, but just search her heart and she might find what she was looking for. She hung up on me, didnt answer when I called back and sent me an email stating its over.

She emailed me yesterday and asked did I get her package, because I left some things at her place and we live 50 miles apart. She wanted to know was she missing anything. And we kept talking on email until I eventually caved and asked was their any chance of us getting back together, starting over casually dating and not taking it so serious so fast, because we did move very fast. This was her response:

“I need some time to think about that. Can we simply agree to be friends until I get to a point that I am ready to date again? Honestly, I am just not in a place that I can do that right now. But I dont want us to hang around my daughter because I dont want her to think we’re a couple again. I just don’t want to date now.”

A) So what do I need to do to get my (ex) girlfriend back?

B) Do you think she still wants to be with me if she is this overwelmed or is this an excuse to dump me?

C) She has stated she would hate to lose me as a friend, but I cant just be friends with her. Is she keeping me on hold just in case or the fall guy?

And MOST IMPORTANTLY

D) When she says give her time to think about it, how much time do I give her? Do I tell her I can only wait for so long? And if so how long? I hate for it to sound like an ultimatum, but I can’t keep my life on hold.

E) Do i just need to move on or wait this out?

I would appreciate ANY advice and ANY help! Thanks in advance!

I gave custody of my daughter to my ex wife to keep the kids together. Can I get her back?

I had a daughter when my ex wife and I married. Then we had a son together. When we split up in July 2006 they were 7 and 4 and I wanted to keep them together so i gave her custody of my daughter. Can I get custody of my daughter back?

husband hit me. i got scared and begged 4 abusive ex back. Now regret it. Any advice he’ll be here real soon!

Live on military base & my husband hit me in front of my 2 daughters (his step) & turned himself in. I went into early labor (8 months preg.) and had to go to doc. Called abusive ex to pick up daughters and in my worry asked for him to take me back and told him I love him. I realize I was worried and just didn’t want to leave my daughters. I was trying the easy way so I would have support and went to the wrong person. Now my abusive ex wants to come to my married home and sleep the night while my husband is locked on a restraining order. I just want a way to get to my home I live 5 states away while abusive ex is cross country from this home.
I don’t have any money right now or I would already be home that is why my girls are going back w thier dad so they are NOT around the abuse. I didn’t know my husband was going to flip out!
My family doesn’t have the money to come get me and my husband is in military police custody after hitting me
We’ll since my ex is flying up here already and I have no family or friends there really is no one to take care of my girls if I end up going into labor. At least with their dad I know the baby will be safe and the girls won’t be drug across country again.

man i wann get ex girlfriend back for cheating on me she wants me back and im goin to take her bac?

so i can get revenge she slept with another guy and her hole family new about it Sucks huh well shes begging for me back !! i want some ideas from the women and the man but especially the women i kno u know whats women hate.

How to get an ex boyfriend back..?

Okay me and my boyfriend broke up because he said he needed more space and time with the guys. I know he has minor feelings for someone else. I know my ex still loves me but im not sure if hes over me. We’ve been broken up for a little over a week and we both completly stopped texting eachother like 5 days ago. Im going to a party today and he’s 100% going to be there but he doesn’t know that im coming. Any ideas what to do at this party and how to get my ex back fast?

My ex husband wants to stop paying child support and wants me to sign an agreement.?

We have been divorced for 11 years, his child support was set at $200.00 every two weeks for two children, at the time of our divorce. It was suppose to be $300 based on our income comparison, but he argued about it and I agreed to lower it. I have full custody, he has visitation every other weekend. I have never taken him back to court to have his child support reviewed, although at one time he got behind quiet a bit and his child support was amended by the state to include arrears payments, which brought it up to $230 every two weeks instead of $200.00. Two years ago our oldest child turned 18, so HE TOOK ME to court to have child support lowered and our 18 emancipated. The age in Indiana for child support to cease is 21. I agreed to emancipate our 18 year old, which he doesnt have nothing to do with, because she wouldnt go to court and say I was a bad parent so he could get custody. The judge didnt want to emancipate her, but did because it was agreed upon, although I am still supporting her at the age of 20. Along with the emancipation of our oldest daughter, the judge ordered him to pay me $357.00 every other week for just our one child that is now 16. So instead of it going down, it went up by alot for one child. Dont forget he took me to court. He owes me at least 5000.00 in arrears. Now he wants me to feel sorry for him, since he has our daughter feeling sorry for him, and wants me to sign a paper that he dont have to pay. My daughter begs me to stop the child support, and is terribly upset about it when coming home from weekend visits. I hate putting my daughter through all of this for money, and called my lawyer and asked him to draw up the papers, he said no judge in his right mind would go for it, and called me a stupid moron for doing it. I just dont want to make things hard on my daughter. I also pay 100 % of insurance,medical, dental, eye when he was ordered to pay 1/2. Any suggestions?
I am not putting my child in this situation or in between him and I with child support, he does this on his own, which is the big reason why i have considered doing it, because I want her kept out of it, and unless I do, it will always be an issue.

I am not a single parent, I am remarried, for nine years now, which two children in my current marriage, and two from my previous. My current husband is disabled.

I dont want to put my child through court battles which would be no different than what he is doing.

If I get back with my Ex wife would I now refer to her as my Ex-Ex wife?

If it was you, how would you refer to your Ex-Ex? Girlfriend? Or what?

What’s something mean to say to an ex-boyfriend when he gets a new girlfriend quickly?

Like something that will make him think. He broke up with me a month ago and told me he wasn’t going to get in another serious relationship until after he got back from his mission(We’re both LDS). But then like 2 weeks later he started flirting with another girl and they are now officially together. It really pisses me off, especially since he was flirting with me way bad last night, Any advice on what to do would help.

We are still really good friends….

should i get back with my ex boyfriend after he dump me claiming he need to get himself together spiritually?

Im 22 yd and i was in a two year relationship with a guy who was brought up with different spiritual beliefs than myself. It was an issue for us but i stuck with him believing we could get through it if we research the reason why we both believe what we believed. Out of the blue he broke up with me and said he needed to grow spiritually because he didnt know what to believe. I was hurt. now hes back a month later saying he wants to be friends but at the same time he says he wants to get back with me but not right now cuz he’s focusing on God. His intensions are to stay friends but eventually get back together. I wonder is this true ?DO you think i should ever get back with this guy ? Is what he saying was the truth of why he left or is it something else?
by the way the two years we were together our relationship was great.

Saw my ex’s Yahoo page, why does it hurt?

Hi there..

It’s a bit of a long story, but I need someone to help me out. My ex and I were together for almost two years. We broke up last Summer. Today, I am engaged to someone else and he is the man of my dreams and he is everything that I wanted. I am in a happier place, but when I found his page it just made me cry..

He is Indian, and I was white. I never had a problem with him or his race. His family didn’t approve, and his friends always hated that I couldn’t fit in. I have a big heart, and I was only nice to his friends. They are they party type and always pressured him to come with them. He was weak to stand up to his parents for us. I was the only one holding on to our relationship. He acted all nice and prue with me, and trying to act that he had a good heart because I did and I liked helping with peopoe. When he use to party all night, I put on a smile and let him haven despite he never included me. I cried all night, and came here to Yahoo Answers to get my mind off things. I use to tell him that I liked helping people, and he acted all fake that it was good what I was doing. He is a very usnatble person, never knows want he wants to be in life. I always tried to encourage him.. Anywyas, he broke up with me on my birthday and told me that he cheated TWICE the other week. I FORGAVE HIM FOR THAT!! Then two days later his friends pressured him to break up with me. IT HURT SOO MUCH BECAUSE I LOVED HIM AND IT WAS ALL FAKE AT THE END.

I tried to move on the best I could.. DEspite I thought my ex and I would be together forever. I made a guy the next month who is my finacee today. My best friend and we share everything together!! I started to see my ex again though during that time.. WE did things which I am not proud of.. And my fiancee at the time told me how schemey my ex was and I desevere better. My ex went to India for a month and when he came back he bought everyone something from India and he didn’t get my anything. Before he went to India, I got him a camera.. When he came back. I knew it was just not the same. He will never change to be a womanizer choosing his friends, and family over me. He was just overall, I don’t know how to explain it.. FAKE. And it hurt a lot because I loved him and hope that things would be better, but they were not so I let him go finally.

Itt hurt everyday and I felt that I wasn’t complete, but my fiancee was there and he made me realize that I am better then he is, and he will never be pure like how my heart is. Three months passed and I never attempted to call or email. Maybe I emailed once by accident, because it was suppose to go in my draft. I am happy and in love with my fiancee, I can‘t be more blessed that after this heartbreak, I did find my true love.

Then, I came on here to answer people’s questions and I found his. It was his full name, and I recognized his writing. I went through his answers to peopewl and it sounds so much like me.. It is very werid. For example I am very psychological with people and I want to help an dI told my ex that. He does the same thing, and he is so nice to these people and I can‘t understand why he had to hurt me zoo bad!!! I am over him, I just don’t know why I got so upset seeing all his questions and answers. He is still the same partying, and lost what his future should be. He was a security officer before, now he wannest to bw in airforce? He is still the same, and when he answered a girl about cheating! He DID CHEATTT, CHAETED THAT IS ON ME!! He is different, or I think he is trying to reconcile the hurt that he remembers that he did to me. Now, he is using Yhaoo Answers a lot, and he knew that I always used it. Maybe I am reading too deep in it, but why does it hurt??? I am happy and engaged, why did it hurt to see his page??? Help me.

Can my friend be held responsible for something someone else wrote on a forum?

Ok, my friend is involved in divorce and bitter custody battle. He was talking to some people on a forum and just generally complaining about how difficult his wife was making it for him. He made no threats against her or anything.

One of the people on the forum jokingly told him that if she were a millionaire she would hire a lawyer to go after his ex if she could, and then she said she would hire a hitman for him!!! But it was clear she was joking, and she said so in the posts.

The ex wife saw these posts a year later and had his custody rights revoked over it. She took it to a judge and he hasn’t seen his daughter for weeks now. He is fighting to get his rights back but she is using these forum comments from a year ago against him.

The only thing is that HE didn’t WRITE any of it. He doesn’t even know the person who did, she is just some internet lady. Now he’s losing his daughter over some joking threat that a forum stranger wrote to him about his ex wife. WHY is the court allowing this and blamming him for what a stranger said?

What are his rights here? Doesn’t this sound strange? Can his ex wife go after this internet stranger instead since she actually made the comments?
Thanks guys…I think you’re right, there is more to this, there has to be.

Back with my husband after I cheated on him and he can’t get over it…?

After having my daughter me and my husband argued as we couldn’t adjust as he wanted to live the life he had before becoming a dad and our sex life was non existant. he is 42 and i’m 26 so there’s an age gap and he has a complex about it. Three years later and I had enough and I slept with an ex work colleague a few times which i’m now utterly ashamed off. I moved in with him but things didn’t work out and we broke up. i lived on my own for a year but started dating my husband again and we got back together. i told him that i was a tramp for doing what i did and that i was in a bad place then and wouldnt ever cheat again. we have been getting on fine and took my daughter to miami for a vacation. While on the beach in my bikini some guy wolf whistled and asked me if i needed any lotion rubbed on my body. i said no thanks but my hubby accused me of flirting with him. he cant get over it and he told me that he always imagines my old work colleague rolling around with me naked and it makes him sick. because he is a lot older he has a real complex and i love him and have made a real effort in bed. he banned me from wearing bikinis on vacation. how do i get him to get over this ? i want to be with him and want another baby with him. just because i have been naked with another guy on a moment of madness shouldn’t change anything ?
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