Donald asks…

has anyone ever taken an ex back after cheating?

my ex boyfriend left me a year and a half ago we were just shy of six years.he left without any reason.just little by little dropped from my life,and was very cold,now he started messaging me on facebook asking to speak with me,and out of curiosity i caved and he is saying that he wasted 2 YEARS of his life with her,which means he was cheating on me,like i knew back then but he said i was just crazy.also that so many events in his life had made him miss me and think of me,he found a folder in the daughter’s book bag and she had a bunch my old pictures,when he asked her why she said her and her brother kept them and looked at them because they miss me and thought he would get upset with them if he knew they saved them.also going on about how much i put up with and he realized i was the only girl he ever really cared for.now he wants to see me.is it foolish to even be friendly with him and see where it goes?
it’s just hard for me,it took me so long to cope without closier and the pain left but i always wondered was it me?what did i do or not do? now knowing that while i was hurting he was thinking of me feels good to know but i feel like i don’t know him anymore.the last few times i had seen him before he disappeared i felt that he was different and i didnt know him.is that weird?
oh,and when i caved and called him,he said he was so nervous because because of how it ended and what he did,he wanted to cantact me awhile ago but did’nt want to ”bother” me or interrupt my life for what he did to me.
@ BEX, that’s another thing he said that we were young,he was young and he’s matured now.we were both 21 when we met.
thank you all for your advice..i feel like i wasted my best years on him thinking he was the one,we were engaged,i always said that he was the type of guy i thought never existed.i was so wrong.we met as kids and our paths crossed again when i was 21,i’m 29 now that’s why i say i wasted my ‘best’ years on him..i sold his ring to..

How Can I Get My Ex Back answers:

No way. He showed you his character, It’s all about him. He did not have the decency to communicate the truth to you. Let him live with his choice. He is trying to sucker you in with the kid story. Let him know if he had been truthful with you there would have been a possibility of reconciliation. Unfortunately, you can’t trust him. Wish him well and tell him that you hope he learned something and will treat the next person in his life with more respect then he showed you.

He is not what you are looking for and the hardest part is behind you now. You know that your instincts were right. She did you a favor, you could have wasted many years on him.

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