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Ex-Girlfriend Had Sex with someone else now she wants me back! Please Help!?

Hello everyone

Sorry this story is so long but I need everyone’s help

Basically, my ex-girlfriend and I ended our relationship back in August. We are both in college. We’ve dated for 2 years and known each other for 4 years. 2 months in October my ex-girlfriend started having a crush on my ex-friend. We were still semi-dating at the time and my ex-girlfriend spent the night at my ex-friend’s apartment and my ex-friend even kissed her even though he had a girlfriend at the time.

I basically forgave her for all this because she felt bad about this. She told me that she didn’t like my ex-friend like that and that she only liked him as a friend. A few months later I found out that she was still seeing Matt like text messaging him and stuff constantly and even invited him up to her dorm room where I almost got into a fight with him.

I decided to finally end things with her and took all my stuff back and told her not to contact me again. 3 weeks passed with both of us not talking to each other until she finally ran into me studying at the library. She told me that she missed me and that she wanted me back. She also told me that she tried things with my ex-friend but they didn’t work out. She told me that she only kissed him during this time but didn’t sleep with him because she missed me everyday and wanted to call me.

She’s still friends with my ex-friend but I feel to move forward, he shouldn’t be in the picture. I’m kind of iffy taking my ex-girlfriend back because I’m not sure if I trust her. I love her to death and I don’t want to lose her but at the same time I feel torn up. What should I do?

Update: Today my ex-girlfriend told me that she had sex with my ex-friend the first week we agreed on not contacting with each other. She told me that she had no feelings for him and that she regrets it every day and that she wants me back and that I’m “The one” for her. She says that it was a mistake and that it hurts her every single second knowing what she did.

I’m really hurting right now because I am still completely in love with her and I know it to. I feel like we match really well together and I’ve always wanted to marry her. Now I’m just sobbing uncontrollably. I’ll admit that I made some wrong choices too during the times we weren’t talking like getting drunk to the point of passing out for a few days and going on dates with girls that had the same personality as my ex. I never slept with any of those girls though because I still loved my ex even though one of them wanted to. Did I do the right thing or should I just have jumped into bed with the next available person? Can someone please guide me on what to do because even I’m confused with what I want to do. Please help me…