Your Questions About How Can I Get My Ex Back With A Confident Attitude

Opinion needed for 2 different guys?

So i‘m 16 and i basically like and would learn to love these 2 guys which both happen to be my exes…so i‘ll call them ex a and ex b. Ex b just recently broke up with me, i dont blame him bcuz i was sorta confused bout my feelings for him, Ex a i broke up with a few months ago bcuz i had feelings for Ex b. Ex a and i had talked still and Ex b and i were together but what Ex b and i had wasn’t all good, we had barely talked whereas with Ex a we could talk about anything. So Ex a is “in love” with me and is trying so hard for me to go back with him, and Ex b had said he regreted breaking it with me. i really like both of these guys but one seems to have a quality which the other one doesn’t, which makes it hard for me to choose. Once i started going out with Ex b i started to become confused bcuz i thought i didn’t have feelings for Ex a bcuz i had them for Ex b but then i realized i had felings for both of them.

After Ex b broke up with me i told myself i would stay single for a bit, but Ex a has convinced me that i should make a decision soon or i‘d lose both. i am now stuck and i dont know what i should do.

So a background of each Ex.

Ex a: He’s 17 and portuguese. He’s told me i was his only real gf and thinks we have a future together. He’s respects girls, he is kind, a bit shy unless he’s around his friends, he is one of those popular guys, but he’s a really great guy. He is smart but he is more of a photoshop kinda guy. He takes care of himself and his body. From what he told me he was a “bad boy” but changed once he got to gr.11 he started focusing more in school, respecting teachers more, going to the gym. With Ex a i‘d be able to see a long term relationship with him, seeing that we can talk so much, but, he just lacks the confidence intimacy wise. He isn’t confident with kissing etc. He’s just a totally different guy than Ex b.

Ex b: He’s 16 and spanish. He is a popular guy and his friends are much different then mine. when he’s around me he’s great but around his friends he acts very cocky. He is one of those guys that would fight if someone pissed him off. He has alot of attitude with teachers. He gets angry easily. He is completly different than Ex a but he can really be a nice guy and knows how to treat his girl right. He is very smart but doesn’t always show it in the classroom. He also takes care of himself and he does play soccer. Basically i guess you can say this guy is a bit of a “bad boy”. Ex b i think i would see a long term relationship with him if we would communicate more, but, he has confidence in intimacy.

Please give your opinion on mayb who i should choose or just opinions about them and mayb the situation. Please dont be rude. Thanks.

Also to add to Ex a‘s background he is really annoying in a way i cant describe it. Like you would have to meet him to understand what i‘m talking about, i‘ve gotten comments saying how annoying he is and i think that was part of my reason i broke it. but i try to like accept that and try to work with that.

Both basically have me on a line, reeling me in at the same time.

I am torn between these two guys.
whoever i decide i know that it would be long-term but i‘m scared too choose the wrong guy.