Your Questions About How To Get Ex Husband Back From The Other Woman

so upset at the way my ex’s,wifes parents are too mine?

i was with my ex for 5yrs and one of the things that made our reltionship hard,and put a strain on us,is my parents i was living with them at home,i was like 20/21 cause of the way my parents are well specifically my dad i never wanted a guy to know them and be included,come round,do all the other stuff,and because they had a problem with where he was from that gave them a good excuse,plus they don’t do the norm that other parents do that i can talk to and tell them about a guy,they take a interest,want to know the guy and include him in the family and stuff,cause they have a problem with doing these things for some reasons,also have a problem with me having a boyfriend full stop and wouldn’t allow me to have him round and didn’t feel free with him cause i was always worrying about my dad.

Anyway we had bad times in our relationship,and at the end when we split,he met women,and met one woman,whom he formed a reltionship with,at the time he was a illegal immigrant,and he got arrested one day,anyway themn being in whatever relationship they had,i mean i don’t know it all,she knew what situation he was in,when he got sent home-to albania,she flew over and stayed out there with him,until she had to come back for work etc,her parents knew about him,they knew his position and she married him whilst out there,he stayed for a few months and then came back,what i’m trying to say is,although her parents and her lived quite far apart,they were out of london,she still was freely able to tell them about him ,they knew him and about him,took a interest and included him in the family,they visited the parents together,etc,now her father who was 80 ish has passed away,of course my ex being her husband went to the funeral,stayed over at the mothers house,now the wife went there for a few days to sort out fathers stuff etc,and has brought her mu up to london fo a week to stay with them,all these things are what i think life should be like when you have a guy husband,and thatsa what upsets me that he has a normal life with her and i could never be like that with him or with a guy. Its the norm that people may have ther differences and opnions,not always get on,but everyone around me who has a guy or husband,has told there parents,the parents want to be involved and include him in the family,he goes everywhere and to everything and its all fine and excepted,they don’t feel they can’t do things cause the parents don’t want to or will have a problem with things,and they don’t feel they can’t do things that include or around the parents cause of how they will be affected by a parent.

I would like to have any advice opinions and stories from other people,don’t get me wrong we’ve both moved on,but i feel sad that i couldn’t be with a guy and don’t have a normal life ,like they do,also don’t tell me its all about moving out of home,cause all those peoples lives have been different before they left,also don’t tell me that the guy won’t mind,its not that,cause day to day life casn go on,but they want to be freely involved and included by a gilrs family.
sory realised my heading was wrong,it was supposed to be so upset at how my ex‘s wifes parents are better than mine,also i do keep finding reasons as to why people act the right way and do the normal family thing,but i know i shouldn’t cause it won’t excuse the way mine are.
But you do find that those other people are completely different people with or without probs and again different to my parents.